10 Signs You Gotta "Let That Man Go"

New Year is the perfect time to do a little clearing out and I don't mean your wardrobe. It's time to get rid of those boys who are stressing you out, ruining your day and not appreciating you! This year and every year is about YOU so don't let anyone mess you around.

- You initiate every conversation  

Effort should be 50/50 so if you feel like it's more 20/80 then stop putting in the effort. 

- He won't add you because he "doesn't use social media"

It's 2018 everyone uses social media. Unless you live in the middle of nowhere, in that case how are you reading this? 

- He doesn't talk to you but "likes" everything

If they're not interested in talking to you they don't "like" you. 

- He still uses a dating app to talk to you after you've met 

Do they have a secret girlfriend or can they just not be bothered pressing that tiny add friend button? 

- He tags other girls in memes

Nowadays you can track who everyone is hooking up with based on who they tag in memes... 

- He refuses to post anything about you

Now I'm not saying you want them to flood their whole feed, but if you feel like you're being hidden.. you probably are.  

- You've met each others parents but still aren't "official"

Is it ever going to happen? because if they're wasting your time and  hooking up with other people then don't even bother. 

- He only messages you after 12am

We all know this is a booty call, stop picking up if you want anything serious. 

- He asks you out but never actually makes plans

It's all exciting getting asked out, but the whole point in asking is to actually GO OUT. 

- He says his ex's are "crazy"

What did he do to make them crazy is the question you should be asking.

If you're experiencing any of these signs, you know what you gotta do.

(If you're a boy reading this how many did you score?)

xx

The Dating Diaries | Are Cities Like Dating Buffets?

As you all know there are two things that I love to talk about,food and dating AKA bad dating stories. Well I have a theory for you today that involves a bit of over indulging in some bad food. 

I'm pretty sure you are well aware of what a buffet is, but if you've been living in a hole most of your life here's a summary: They are a place where you can eat as much food as you like in a certain period of time and there is usually a huge selection of different types and cuisine's. But the catch is that it's more about quantity than quality. So you stuff yourself on everything there is to offer because, well you paid for it..

Since being back In Hong Kong for exactly 8 months, i've been thinking about how dating in such a condensed city can be so difficult. Here is why I believe it's similar to a buffet: 

• There is a huge variety, all different nationalities and styles. 

• No one wants to commit, why choose thing when you can pile your plate high? 

• The quality is lacking, so you make do with what's in front of you.

• Since everyone is invited to this buffet, there's always gonna be something/someone else. 

• You never know what course you are, are you a main dish or just a side?  

• It's easy to overindulge and find yourself in a bit of trouble later. 

Maybe it's time for a new restaurant to come to town 

xx

Boys To Avoid | The Dating Diaries

Dating can be a little bit like conducting a science experiment. You put two chemicals (or people) together usually at a random pairing and either it blows up or nothing really happens. 

You all know by now I love sharing my personal life with you, and you seem to love it too! so from my own personal dating diary I'll guide you through the types of guys to avoid.

(As much as I would LOVE to name and shame, I've called them by their nicknames instead cuz i'm classy like that) 

Mr Can't Commit

You'll go on dates, call and text all the time and when you think it's all sunshine and roses, it comes crashing down just as quickly as it started. They'll say something like "my last relationship was so bad" or "it's just really not the right time" but in all honestly their just keeping their options open and so should you.


Mr Controlling

You're going out again? What time will you be back? Who are you going with? The constant accusing and nagging from this one will have you wanting to tear your eyes out or theirs. It may seem like he's being cute worrying about you, but you'll get tired of it verrry quickly.

Mr Jock 

This guy spends more time, money and everything else he has to offer in the gym. At first it's hot, but when all he can talk about is the gym it can get very boring. If you have to listen to him going on about protein shakes one more time you might just put him in that nutrabullet. 


Mr Moody 

There's always something mysteriously attractive about quiet, moody guys. It triggers your emotions and makes you want to fix them. But the more you try to meddle, the more you'll get punished for it. Before you know it they've sucked you into that blackhole of moodiness with them. 


Mr Fake 

This guy wins you over almost straight away with his happy and charming energy. But there's just something not quite right and you can't seem to get to the bottom of it. After spending a sufficient amount of time with them you'll come to realise there is nothing genuine about them and you've pretty much been dating a ghost.  

Mr Lazy  

It's all fine chilling out once in a while but it'll turn stale very quickly and when it gets to the point where you have to drag them to come out and do something other then sit at home.

 Unlucky for me I've had to deal with some of these lovelyyy humans, but hopefully you don't have to! xx 

Confessions Of A Drunk Girl | Drunk Texting

Do you ever wake up after a night out and for a second you're a little confused and disoriented before your memories from the night hit you and you get that horrible stomach sinking feeling?
  
I've stopped bringing my phone with me on most nights-out unless it's a matter of life or death. Everyone has their unique drunk quirks, mine just happens to be sharing my thought process at that moment in time with some select people in my contacts. But pretty much everyone does it at some point in their lives, some more than others.... Here are a few of my "favourites". 



The "Are you out?" Text 

I'm wanting to know whether to look out for you or to avoid you if you reply with yes....lucky you will never know which one I'm going to do though! or I'm wondering if you're drunk right now so I don't have to worry about embarrassing myself completely when I continue to drunk message you.
  


The "I know it's 3am but I REALLY need your help" Text.

Asking advice from your friends who aren't out. Firstly I'd like to say sorry, and secondly I may sound like I need this advice desperately but about a second after sending you the message i'm asking some random drunk girl in the bathroom,(she really knows what she's talking about)



The "I hate you" Text 

This is most likely because you've pissed me off recently but because I hate confrontation I pretend everything's all sunshine and rainbows. But if you've annoyed me so much that you ruin my night....then you probably deserve it #sorryimnotsorry 



The "Lets hang out" Text

Usually this is after you've seen a long lost friend on your night or they've liked your pre night-out selfie. When they except your offer in the morning, you have to come up with a pretty good excuse to bail... a crazy hangover is always a good one. 



The "Drunk damage control" Text 

After waking up and realising what you've done, you attempt to make things better again. Without taking into consideration the fact that you've only had 2 hours sleep and are pretty much the same drunk mess you were before. Just leave it, nothing says I'm sorry like pretending nothing happened!  



The "I love you"/ "I miss you" Text

I saved the worst till last, this text comes at the end of the night when you've had too much and are a bit on the hysterical side. Usually once you're home and feeling sorry for yourself because you're such a wreck. I will have completely forgotten about that message until the next morning when I wake up and look through my phone and want to bang my head against the wall. P.S never take this message seriously, I'm just drunk.

Happy texting, drunk bitches! xx